What’s good mayne? As a certified big mayne, I am here to tell other big fellas some do’s and don’ts when dating. Sometimes we get so excited to go on a date, especially if the lady you are dating happens to be extremely attractive(I like being out with women that are overly attractive, it makes other fellas think they have a chance) that we have a tendency to either do too much or not enough. I will just give you a few pointers from my own personal experiences of trial and error. #SWBY
1. BE CONFIDENT, NOT COCKY
When you are out fellas it is alright to let the lady you are out with know that you are comfortable with yourself and her as well. Sometimes we can find ourselves making the whole date about us. Spending too much time basking in compliments with responses like “I know” or “Tell me something I don’t know”. Nine times out of ten if she is out with you it is because she already had a feel for your confidence which may have attracted her to you in the first place.
2. STAY AWAY FROM SELF-INFLICTING JOKES
If you have a sense of humor, stay away from roasting yourself throughout the date. No lady wants to hear jokes from you about how you can eat everything on the menu. Drawing attention to yourself through jokes about yourself in a negative light might just ruin the date, creep her out, or discourage any future possibilities. Now don’t get me wrong you can be funny about yourself just be careful how you express it. Matter fact just stay away from them.
3. DON’T SUGAR-COAT WHO YOU ARE
Basically, don’t go on a dinner date and you know you not on no diets or nothing trying to eat like it. If you eat hefty steaks and things of that nature. Order it. You know damn well that you not having no fun eating a lettuce salad and drinking water. Be yourself. The lady knows what she has gotten into if she has agreed to go on a date with you in the first place.
4. DRESS THE PART
Just because you big that does not mean you have to be sloppy. At all. Matter fact being labeled sloppy is the worst feeling a big mayne can have. At least to me anyway. Go get fitted up. Find clothes that fit ya body type and style. Don’t come out the house with a 5X Shirt on and you can wear a 3X. Even though you are big, I’m pretty sure ladies still peep your appearance and choice of clothing. That can be a deal breaker more than you think.
5. PEOPLE GONE LOOK, HATE, AND JUDGE…WHO CARES
Be prepared. Actually I thrive off it. If I am out with an attractive female, I will manipulate the scene. For one I will take advantage and make all the ladies around us wonder why she chose me. Two, I will make the fellas in the place feel my presence and hers as well. People will always have something to say about what they don’t understand. Don’t sweat it just enjoy the date. Plus if I see people with something to say I am good at letting the whole room have it.